I’m a cam model and I’m also on Only Fans. And what I would like society to know is me being on OF doesn’t mean that I don’t also get to enjoy the yumminess, purity, and delicateness of being a woman and I think that’s how society tends to treat us. Like we’re used up or shunned. And it can at times feel like begging to be seen as women. The ironic part is that women (and men) who have chosen to charge for themselves are treated like a free product the most.
Sex should never be free. It should be the most expensive thing on earth. Sacred dosne’t mean never letting anyone touch it, it means being cognizant of what the value actually is. As a cam model some women value that at $1 a minute and other women value it at $15/min. On OnlyFans some creators have placed a value of $7.99 while others at $15.99. Regardless we showed up for a price. Which is why I think that breakups can be hard. Because we’re valuing or placing $0 on the most expensive thing on earth. So of course when it’s not treated that way it hurts. But what value as we as individuals put on it in the first place?
Coming back to the original purpose of this post. This blog is called Underneath Your Lingerie and what my job on OF has taught me is that underneath her lingerie not all women wears their bodies the same way. It’s how they do though that makes a man’s jaw hit the floor.
Being on OF doesn’t mean that I don’t also get to enjoy the yumminess, purity, and delicateness of being a woman. It just means that I’m in touch with the frequency inside of my body.