A woman is most protected when she’s in her softness. This is why the world was intentionally made in a way that women couldn’t be soft. The softness of a Black women is the rarest and a lot of times the most persecuted. This is because a soft Black turns into a healing generator for thousands […]
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I worked at Victoria’s Secret for 7 years and we would often give guidance for blending lingerie with clothes. The other day I was chatting with a girlfriend who we had became friends working at Victoria’s Secret and our conversation went to the transparent fashion trend. To me transparent fashion isn’t a trend but
‘Sexy is an aura’: the teaseable fashion style & how to wear transparent clothing. Read More »
There are many variations to a story and today I’m going to share with you why Oshun wears yellow. Just as some women are known for wearing flowers in her hair Oshun was known for dazzling white dresses. The sparkled and shimmered in the sunlight and beautifully contrasted against her dark chocolate skin. And what
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A few years ago I with the help of many women wrote the book “Your Sparkle is Inside of You,” When I came up with the name I didn’t know at the time that after I finished writing that book that I would experience a completely type of sparkle waking up in me and coming
the womb that barbie gave me. Read More »
One day my therapist gave me homework to journal around something that I had said in therapy, “You realize that you just called yourself a mutant?” She asked, “That’s a horrible thing to say about yourself.” And she wanted me to make a list of every time in my life that I’ve felt like a
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Let’s think of your essence like perfume. Well in order for your perfume to smell sparkling and beautiful it has to be a collection of beautiful scents or frequencies (because perfume represents your energy field). I’m speaking very generally hear, not specifically about myself but a world wide thing because right now there is a
Women have judged my body for as long as I can remember, which has lead to me judging my own body. I wonder if my body were alive, I wonder if she could speak to me – what she would share with me about how the judgement from myself has made her feel? Also I
My painful experience with the body positivity movement. Read More »
Today we’re going to have a fun girl chat about Tyra Banks, well I say a fun heart to but really it’s one of the deepest think pieces that I’ve ever written. My blog is called Underneath Your Lingerie and usually I use that term in light, sparkly ways but true sparkle first comes from
Why I Still Love Tyra Banks after the ANTM docuseries. Read More »
Before a woman knows her body she should know her fragrance. And that’s why I’m about to share with you the following story… Long ago there were a sect of minions who found a secret fragrance. The fragrance that they found was so powerful that they could created everything that we wanted from this frequency.
The Secret Fragrance of women. Read More »
There has always been a fascination with a woman’s body. Sometimes women are criminalized for wearing their body. Sometimes they are venerated for it. I think the key to us as women is realizing just how alive our body is. And to know that she is gently whispering to us secrets about herself that she
Why I loved Dr. Karri Bryant’s dress & the famous painting of a woman’s shoulders. Read More »