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How to stay in your softness after surviving attacks because of the color of your skin. | The Ultra Soft Black Girl Life.

Lately everything from shopping at Starbucks to buying shoes at Macys to treating myself out at a “solo date” all being wonderful self love activities have been met with what I’ll call “racial disrespect” in leu of calling it racism – harsh blatant stares in my face stares, intentionally not serving me. Things that are

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‘Sexy is an aura’: How to Wear & Style See Through Clothes with Femininity & Grace.

  I worked at Victoria’s Secret for 7 years and we would often give guidance for blending lingerie with clothes. The other day I was chatting with a girlfriend who we had became friends working at Victoria’s Secret and our conversation went to the transparent fashion trend. To me transparent fashion isn’t a trend but

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