Essence

How to stay in your softness after surviving attacks because of the color of your skin.

Lately everything from shopping at Starbucks to buying shoes at Macys to treating myself out at a “solo date” all being wonderful self love activities have been met with what I’ll call “racial disrespect” in leu of calling it racism – harsh blatant stares in my face stares, intentionally not serving me. Things that are […]

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‘Sexy is an aura’: the teaseable fashion style & how to wear transparent clothing.

  I worked at Victoria’s Secret for 7 years and we would often give guidance for blending lingerie with clothes. The other day I was chatting with a girlfriend who we had became friends working at Victoria’s Secret and our conversation went to the transparent fashion trend. To me transparent fashion isn’t a trend but

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Why I loved Dr. Karri Bryant’s dress & the famous painting of a woman’s shoulders.

There has always been a fascination with a woman’s body. Sometimes women are criminalized for wearing their body. Sometimes they are venerated for it. I think the key to us as women is realizing just how alive our body is. And to know that she is gently whispering to us secrets about herself that she

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