This isn’t a salacious gossip piece about a celebrity breakup but a sweet and short read about feminine energy and relationships. The feminine energy “world” (if there is such a thing) along with a large part of the rest of the world has been in an uproar about Bunnie Xo and Jelly Roll getting a divorce.
Now a little bit about their background is that Bunnie especially has a really horrible background (I’m sure Jelly Roll’s was hard too I don’t know as much about it but Bunnie’s childhood story that she shared in her book literally had me horrified). As a way of survival she became a stripper and a high end escort. Bunnie says that she didn’t lift Jelly Roll and build him up from nothing and that he poured into her and spoke life over her (which I know he did, he seems like a good soul with commitment issues – yes that’s shade but I won’t drop too much out of respect to her).
At the end of the day she had the most money out of the two and so she worked hard to bring in income and even helped him get his daughter back from his drugged out ex wife and has spiritual adopted his daughter as her own. I’m jumping ahead a lot here but this past year or so she and Jelly Roll have been trying to have children and she’s been on IVF which takes a ton out of your body. Meanwhile Jelly Roll has been on a weight loss journey (he used to be overly obese). Well now their divorced and he’s the one that went, filed the paperwork and is now dating in just over a month from being divorced.
The feminine energy world is in an uproar about it because it almost seems like the age old story of you pour all your energy into fixing a man and than he leaves you. In a recent youtube video I shared about how the culture at the strip club (not for every woman but for a lot) is that the women who strip will do an excellent job at demanding that their paid what their worth at the club but then go home and be treated in a way that their not respected at all by their partners (it’s almost like some strangers had more respect for them then their own boyfriends and husbands, I say some because we all know some clients are absolute jerks, however there still are good men that you can find at the strip club). And the same goes for women who work in corporate America. They’ll land these high paying deals and clients in Corporate America but then come up and make the worst deal in their relationships. And I think as women that just perhaps we need to up the price of our feminine energy. And when I say that I mean our energy in general.
Think about gas stations, I know this isn’t a sexy analogy but think of women as feminine energy gas stations across the world. The reason that a lot of men once their divorced end up with someone else really fast is because that woman has served as their energy source and now they need to find another one (which why men can’t just use their own energy I’m not sure)??
Well for a lot of us we’ve priced our gas, what literally gives us energy at the lowest price possible ($0) and then just expect the energy to be there whenever we need it and in endless amounts without even considering that our energy, the energy that we are using is alive and is literally The Feminine and we are draining her.
This what makes women so valuable. Not who are you are but who are wearing. Earlier I mentioned strippers and stripper poles actually tie back to the goddess Asherah, the first goddess to exist. Well we as women give Asherah , our energy, our “ashe” to everyone. And ashe is meant to be expensive, that’s how you attract the right clients and situations (it’s just like in my work as a webcam model where there’s me giving my energy to every guy in a chat vs. me only giving my energy to the men who pay me, one choice is smart and the other isn’t).
We need to start being smart with out energy. We can’t just give it to people who make us feel loved. The much better way to do this is to give it to people who are love to us, and never forget that love is an action.
What’s crazy is that the price of actual gas is higher than the price that most women have personally priced their own gas stations. And so I’m here to tell you with all the love in the world to please, please, plllllllleeeeeaaasssee raise the price at your gas pump.